These examples came from an in-person workshop where participants were asked what feminine part of themselves they had given up or destroyed in order to make life more comfortable or easier to navigate.

- Sensitivity
- Having fun with clothes
- Showing disappointment
- Tearing Up
- Full spectrum of Emotions
- Expressions of Love
- Ebullience
- More Self Expression
- Love of hair ribbons
- Push up bras
- Interest in Makeup Artistry
- Form-Fitting Clothing
- Being Excited
- Humour
- Giggling
- Tight Clothes
- Vulnerability
- Parenting Roles
- Emotions
- Giddiness