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Introduction

Welcome & How to Use the Workbook

Hopes & Dreams

Congratulations, It's a...

Girl Toys vs. Boy Toys

Socializing Agents

Binary Thinking

Time Out for Terminology

Locating Ourselves

Let's Play A Game

Let's Play Dress Up

Gender Binary vs. Gender Tapestry

Gender Neutral Parenting (Part 1)

Femmephobia

Looking Closer at Toxic Masculinity

Let's Think About Femininity

Feminine Stereotypes

Locating Our Beliefs

Situating Our Beliefs

Rules About Femininity

Femmephobia on the Playground

Tomboys, Girly Girls..

I'm Not Like Other Girls

Killing Barbie

Femmephobia & Sports

Femmephobia in the Media

Femmephobia in the Family

What Feminine Part of Yourself...

Benefits of Femininity?

When Blue is Neutral

Gender Neutral Parenting (Part 2)

Femme-Conscious Parenting

When Femininity Feels Impractical

The Hidden Message

Practicing Femme-Conscious Parenting

Stopping Femmephobia

Imagining Femme-Positive Futures

Evaluation Survey

Glossary

Interactive Parenting Workbook
Interactive Parenting Workbook

Interactive Parenting Workbook

Welcome to Beyond Sugar & Spice

This is an interactive workbook for parents and caregivers who want to think more carefully about how femininity is valued — and devalued — in the way we raise children of all genders. Each section combines research, reflection prompts, and practical exercises to support more intentional, femme-conscious parenting.

Not sure where to start? Click the book cover above to go straight to the 👋Introduction.

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Table of Contents:

Beyond Sugar & Spice: A Parenting Workbook for Valuing Femininity in All Children

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👋 Welcome

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🎀 Gender & Socialization

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🔍 Femmephobia 101

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🪞 Reflecting on Femininity

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💭 Femininity Myths

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🌍 Femmephobia Across Contexts

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🌱 Benefits & Gender-Neutral Parenting

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💜 Femme-Conscious Parenting

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✊ Stopping Femmephobia

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🌟 Closing

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📖 Glossary 📖

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