Welcome to Beyond Sugar & Spice
This is an interactive workbook for parents and caregivers who want to think more carefully about how femininity is valued — and devalued — in the way we raise children of all genders. Each section combines research, reflection prompts, and practical exercises to support more intentional, femme-conscious parenting.
Not sure where to start? Click the book cover above to go straight to the Introduction.
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Table of Contents:
Beyond Sugar & Spice: A Parenting Workbook for Valuing Femininity in All Children
👋 Welcome
🎀 Gender & Socialization
🔍 Femmephobia 101
🪞 Reflecting on Femininity
💭 Femininity Myths
🌍 Femmephobia Across Contexts
🌱 Benefits & Gender-Neutral Parenting
💜 Femme-Conscious Parenting
✊ Stopping Femmephobia
🌟 Closing
📖 Glossary 📖
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