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Girl Toys vs. Boy Toys

Socializing Agents

Binary Thinking

Time Out for Terminology

Locating Ourselves

Let's Play A Game

Let's Play Dress Up

Gender Binary vs. Gender Tapestry

Gender Neutral Parenting (Part 1)

Femmephobia

Looking Closer at Toxic Masculinity

Let's Think About Femininity

Feminine Stereotypes

Locating Our Beliefs

Situating Our Beliefs

Rules About Femininity

Femmephobia on the Playground

Tomboys, Girly Girls..

I'm Not Like Other Girls

Killing Barbie

Femmephobia & Sports

Femmephobia in the Media

Femmephobia in the Family

What Feminine Part of Yourself...

Benefits of Femininity?

When Blue is Neutral

Gender Neutral Parenting (Part 2)

Femme-Conscious Parenting

When Femininity Feels Impractical

The Hidden Message

Practicing Femme-Conscious Parenting

Stopping Femmephobia

Imagining Femme-Positive Futures

Evaluation Survey

Glossary

Will Femmephobia Increase COVID-19's Death Toll?

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Will Femmephobia Increase COVID-19's Death Toll? Karen L. Blair & Rhea Ashley Hoskin Psychology Today — Inclusive Insight

About This Post

Examines how femmephobia — the association of self-protective behaviors like mask-wearing with feminine "weakness" — contributed to men's reluctance to wear masks during the COVID-19 pandemic, potentially increasing their risk of illness and death.

Key Takeaways

  • Men were more reluctant to wear masks, perceiving them as a "sign of weakness" — i.e., feminine
  • Femmephobia is so deeply ingrained it can override basic self-preservation instincts
  • "Real Men" campaigns (Real Men Wear Masks, Real Men Wear Pink, etc.) repeatedly rebrand feminine-coded behaviors as masculine — rather than simply revaluing femininity
  • For parents: If femininity were valued equally to masculinity, children and adults alike wouldn't need permission to engage in caring, self-protective behaviors

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Will Femmephobia Increase COVID-19's Death Toll? — Psychology Today

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