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When Blue is Neutral

Gender Neutral Parenting (Part 2)

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How Much Does a Man's Masculinity Matter?

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How Much Does a Man's Masculinity Matter? Karen L. Blair & Abigail McBride Psychology Today — Inclusive Insight

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Explores how masculinity-contingent self-worth — the degree to which men tie their self-esteem to being masculine — predicts increased prejudice toward transgender people, especially when that masculinity is threatened.

Key Takeaways

  • Men whose self-worth depends on being perceived as masculine show more transprejudice when their masculinity is threatened
  • The repudiation of femininity is a core element of hegemonic masculinity — one of the simplest ways men "prove" manliness is by rejecting anything feminine
  • Revaluing femininity so that it is not something men feel they must shun could significantly reduce prejudice against gender-diverse people
  • For parents: Raising boys whose sense of self-worth is not contingent on rigid masculinity may help them grow into more accepting, less reactive adults

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How Much Does a Man's Masculinity Matter? — Psychology Today

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